How do you put on a chastity cage?

Installation of chastity cages according to their designs

There are 4 designs of chastity cages; we will describe how to put them on step by step:

Put on a chastity cage with a hinged ring

1. Open the ring as wide as possible
2. Place it around the penis , behind the testicles , being careful not to pinch the skin when closing it. Your partner can gently pull your testicles forward to make it easier to close. You will hear a small "click" when the ring is properly closed.
3. Place your penis in the cage and adjust the two pieces together, making sure that the upper part of the ring passes through the eye at the top of the cage.
4. Insert the padlock into the hole and lock it.

Put on a chastity cage with a fixed ring

1. Pass each testicle through the ring, one by one.
2. Bend the penis downwards.
3. Gently insert it into the ring.
4. Insert your penis into the tube
5. Lock the cage with a padlock.

Put on a chastity cage with an open, lockable ring

1. Simply place the open ring behind your penis and scrotum .
2. Put your penis in the cage and adjust the two pieces together
3. Insert the lock with the key and lock it.

Put on a chastity cage with an open ring and spacer

1. Place the half-ring behind your scrotum and testicles.
2. Insert the first blocker with the 2 metal pins, as well as the central rod for the padlock.
3. Insert the second blocker into the pins, then put a spacer on the center rod.
4. Insert the cage around your flaccid penis, then place the padlock in the exposed hole of the central pin.

Put on a chastity cage with a screw-on ring

1. Pass each testicle through the ring, one by one.
2. Bend the penis downwards.
3. Gently insert it into the ring.
4. Close the cage by adding the screw using a screwdriver.

Setting up the chastity cage accessories

Inserting a urethral plug

There are two types of urethral plugs : rigid stainless steel plugs and flexible plastic plugs. Metal plugs need to be screwed into the cage before insertion, while plastic plugs can be inserted afterward. It is very important to lubricate the plug before insertion.

Add spikes

The spikes should generally be placed between the main ring and the cage. Some cages have spikes/points molded inside the cage during the design process.

Insert a testicle separator ring

The stem that separates the testicles is usually fused to the main ring. You will simply need to put the ring on as if it were a standard one.

Apply electrostimulation electrodes

The electrical electrodes must be placed inside the cage tube in the designated slots. Once in place, the tube can be inserted into your penis.

Put on a ring with an integrated anal plug

Just like the testicle separator, the anal plug is welded to the cock ring. Therefore, you must first put on the ring in the usual way, and then insert the anal plug.

Precautions to take before installation

Before implementing such a chastity device, there are certain rules to follow if you don't want your dream of abstinence to turn into a nightmare.

Hygiene

Before wearing a chastity cage , the hygiene of your genitals must be impeccable. If you put on your cage when your penis is dirty, a very unpleasant odor will quickly develop due to the poor ventilation of your skin inside. Everything will obviously depend on the type of cage you choose. A metal cage with thin bars will allow for good ventilation and facilitate cleaning thanks to the wide spaces between the bars. If you wear a closed cage, meaning one that doesn't breathe, your glans will quickly become moist, which will encourage the growth of bacteria.

To avoid all of this, the simplest solution is to take a shower to eliminate any bacteria that may be present and to dry the skin of your penis . It is recommended to use intimate shower gels to avoid over-drying the skin of your glans . Standard shower gels can prematurely irritate sensitive skin and, over time, create micro-fissures on the surface of the epidermis of your glans. These will encourage the growth of bacteria once the penis is covered.

An hour before putting your penis and testicles in the cage, we recommend applying intimate (or baby) moisturizing cream to enhance their elasticity. The areas of skin that will be in constant contact with the ring will be subjected to friction and tension. This will help strengthen them in these specific areas.

Hair removal

To improve your comfort while caged , we recommend shaving your genitals completely. This will prevent hair from getting caught in the bars and the cage's locking mechanism. It will also make daily hygiene easier, allowing you to more easily slide your fingers inside to scrub your skin. For long-term chastity, this will reduce friction between the ring and the skin of the scrotum.

For hair removal, the most comfortable method is waxing, also known as permanent hair removal, which provides long-term protection without immediate regrowth. Unfortunately, it is also the most expensive and sometimes painful.

Classic shaving, on the other hand, is ideal for maintaining a certain level of comfort for short- and medium-term abstinence , since regrowth is immediate.

Regardless of the hair removal method you use, it is recommended to wait until your skin is no longer red or shows any signs of irritation before wearing the chastity cage . These abrasions can worsen with friction if your skin is not already accustomed to them.

Lubrication

For smooth insertion, the penis should be pre-lubricated with baby oil or a water-based lubricant. For proper support, the tip of the penis should touch the end of the cage . Once the cage is inserted, the lubricant should be removed by quickly rinsing with fresh water. Then, the penis should be dried with a hairdryer.

An alternative to lubricant is to use talcum powder and the end of a stocking or pantyhose.

1. After putting on the ring, apply talcum powder to your penis .
2. Pass the end of the pantyhose through the tube and then bring it out through the hole in the cage used for urination.
3. Next, insert your penis into the opening of the pantyhose, then insert the tube as you pull the pantyhose out of the cage (through the end you brought out by going through the hole to urinate).
4. Once your penis is completely inside, all you have to do is remove the tights by pulling hard on their end.

Consent

In order for the relationship you have with your mistress to go as smoothly as possible once you are caged, it is ideal to establish a chastity contract in advance that each of the two parties must sign before beginning abstinence .

This contract outlines the duration for which the man will remain locked up and the rules the keyholder has established, along with any associated penalties and/or rewards. The keyholder 's duties will also be defined, such as ensuring the comfort and hygiene of their submissive .

Favorable times for implementation

Putting on a chastity cage is not a trivial act; to ensure your chastity experience goes as smoothly as possible, it is important to know that depending on your level of arousal and physical condition, your reactions and impulses will not be the same when the time comes.

State of excitement

If you wish to be extremely frustrated from your very first day of chastity , we advise you not to ejaculate during the 48 hours preceding your confinement. Two days is, on average, the time a man needs to wait to reach his maximum arousal. At this stage, the master or mistress must be vigilant with the keys; your raging hormones will drive you to do everything possible to break free.

If this is your first time using a chastity cage , we recommend putting it on immediately after orgasm. Firstly, it will be easier to put on since your penis will be completely flaccid ; secondly, because you won't be aroused, you'll have few erections during the first 24 hours, resulting in less tension on the ring and testicles. Your body will therefore adapt more quickly to this new chastity device .

Physical state

Your mistress will need to carefully assess your physical condition before requiring you to wear the cage . If you are not well, tired, or ill, you risk not enjoying your first experience in a chastity cage at all.

How can I put on his chastity cage if he doesn't agree?

If your fantasy is to control your man's sex life , a chastity cage is the accessory you need. You can measure his penis with a piece of string, pretending it's to see if he has a " small penis " compared to the average. He'll go along without any problem. All that's left for you to do is buy the cage of your choice.

But how can you convince him to put it on if he doesn't agree? Several options are available to you:

Convince him of the advantages

Role-playing by tying him up: If your partner knows you've bought him a chastity cage , all you have to do is convince him by listing the many advantages of abstinence . Staying faithful - no longer wasting energy on masturbation - testing his psychological limits - becoming tender and devoted to his partner - showing respect by obeying her every whim - reserving his arousal solely for his mistress 's pleasure… and many other advantages.

You can suggest that your man take turns tying you up to build excitement . Let him tie you up first; he'll use this opportunity to tease you until you reach orgasm . He'll hold back from ejaculating because he'll imagine you're going to give him oral sex when it's his turn. Once he's freed, after tying him up, you'll slowly masturbate him for several minutes. Then, you'll slowly slide an ice cube over the head of his penis to reduce his erection . Once his penis is flaccid, you can lubricate it and put on his chastity cage .

Where do I put the key to the chastity cage?

Chastity in a couple

If you are in a relationship, you absolutely must give the key to your cage to your master/mistress so that she keeps it in a safe place. Ideally, she should wear it at all times, either on a collar or a bracelet. She can also find a hiding place that only she knows. If your dominant partner is in a mischievous mood, she can place the key somewhere conspicuous, but secured with a combination lock (at least 4 digits). The only way to free you will be to try all the combinations. Be patient; it's for your own good.

Chastity alone

If you practice self-bondage , or are simply caged, it's important to find a way to prevent you from having immediate access to the release key. Several techniques exist:

The digital timer padlock :

These padlocks are programmable timers. You can choose the duration, from a few minutes to more than ten days on some models. Once the time has elapsed, the padlock opens automatically. You simply need to put all your keys in a safe and lock it with this padlock.

The giant ice cube :

This method involves encasing your cage key in ice. The only way to free yourself is to wait for the block of ice to melt. Ideally, the key should be positioned in the center of the block to maximize its inaccessibility. To achieve this, simply suspend the key from a string while the ice freezes. A bucket of water in the freezer will provide at least two days of protection if the temperature is 15 degrees Celsius.

Return to sender :

This technique involves placing the key to your chastity device inside an envelope and mailing it to a nonexistent address on the other side of France (don't forget to write your own address on the back). The letter will return to you in 2 to 3 weeks. The further the address you provide is from your home, the longer it will take to arrive.

Emergency key:

It is essential that the submissive has access to an emergency key at all times. Anyone can experience sudden inflammation of a testicle , intratesticular torsion, or simply have their appearance become abnormal in shape or color.

If your mistress is responsible for your safety , she must provide you with a spare set of keys, which she will have previously placed inside a wax-sealed envelope stamped with her seal. If you open the envelope without a valid excuse, your dominant may severely punish you.

If you live alone and have self-imposed abstinence , we advise you to give a spare key to a trusted person who lives near you. To avoid arousing suspicion about your fantasies , we recommend telling them it's the key to your mailbox or your house. Tell them that this spare key could be useful if you ever find yourself locked out of your home without your keys.

A final solution is to simply cut the padlock with pliers, my lord, or a saw.

Some questions that people frequently ask themselves when starting out in chastity:

Is wearing a penis cage painful?

While cages can be uncomfortable, they should never cause pain to the user. Caged partners, be sure to immediately inform your keyholder if you experience any pain, swelling, itching, dry/broken skin, difficulty urinating, or discoloration of any part of the penis or testicles . For proper regular maintenance of your chastity device, please see our blog post "Chastity Cage Day-to-Day."

Will my cage irritate me?

A clean and properly secured cage shouldn't cause any irritation. If you experience any signs of chafing, such as redness, itching, or sensitive, painful skin, it's likely a sign that you're not cleaning the cage correctly or drying it thoroughly enough. Make your cleaning sessions a little more frequent and ensure you dry yourself completely until the redness disappears. You can also check out our blog posts on "how to measure your penis for wearing a chastity cage."

Is there a risk that my chastity cage will "fall"?

A properly sized penis cage should never fall off. If your cage falls or slips, it's usually a sign that it's too big for you, or perhaps not the right shape. Don't despair, take a look at our wide variety of chastity devices available to find the one that suits you best!

How long should my chastity last for the first time?

The ring has closed. The key is safe under the control of its holder. So... what's next? Forced chastity isn't limited to the cage, is it? So... what happens now?

We're here to help you through this too!

If this is the first time you or your partner have been caged, it shouldn't last more than a day or two. Even if your male chastity cage fits perfectly, it will take some time to get used to it.

Start with shorter periods, gradually increasing each session until you reach a duration that works for you and your partner. This could be one hour a day. One day a year, for example. Or 24/7/365. The only right answer is the one you and your partner decide together!

First test – discovering the sensations:

The caged partner is locked up for 24 hours to ensure the device fits properly without pain or friction.

Second test – taming:

The partner in the chastity cage is confined for three days. The decision to allow or deny orgasm at the end of this period is left to the couple's discretion, but the submissive partner is definitively released after 72 hours . The cage and penis are thoroughly cleaned and inspected for any injuries or damage.

Third test – psychological limit:

The caged partner is confined for seven days . During this period, the experiment begins with rules or tasks—earning early release for good behavior or prolonging it for bad behavior. However, the caged period should ideally not exceed 30 days, as this is still considered part of the trial period.

During the trial period , the caged partner must ALWAYS have a safeword meaning "immediate removal of the device," which they can use in case of injury or significant discomfort. Never play without a safeword . It is important that a caged individual has the option to withdraw quickly while their penis adjusts to the feeling of confinement.

Once the three trial sessions are complete, you and your partner can move on to experimenting with long-term chastity if you wish—one week, one month, three months, or even one year without orgasm ! The only limits are those you choose to set for yourselves!